People that make "positive" saying about life like "Life isn't what happens to you, but what you do with it" already crossed that bridge. If you crossed the bridge, you’ll understand the saying. If you haven’t crossed the bridge, you won’t understand the saying, nor will it help you cross the bridge. You can repeat a positive mantra, but never change. What you need is this: hold on to hope and never let go. If you let go, take hope up again, and again, and again. Persevere through everything. Believe in hope. Then, after some time, you will find yourself standing on the other side of the bridge. #beenthere